Granted, these are strange things to hear. I wonder, though, why we often can't hear the experiences of others without a kind of knee-jerk reaction of contempt and ridicule? Just as an example, and with no wish to pick on anyone, here's the kind of reaction I mean. A listener and BFF forumite wrote the following in a thread about the radio show (the emoticons don't transfer over, but their file names do):
William, aka bipedialist,..............what a crock! You owe me 90 minutes of my life back!
Orbs and ecto-mist, wacko.gif icon_really_happy_guy.gif ...............how about moisture droplets, smears and glare on your camera lens.
I knew your crypto statements about "your bigfoot experience" on this board were pretty lame new_whistle.gif ........... thank you for proving it on this show. wink.gif
I suppose your next tale will have you "habituating" one!
Later the commenter goes on to say:
Pretty neat, a bigfoot that lights up the trail with "white cones of light".
Your'e not a member of the MABRC, by any chance, are you? blink.gif
I want to draw your attention to the sarcastic attitude in the message. The attitude of disdain for unusual experience is worth marking for this reason -- we know that ridicule is a form of social control in human beings. We use ridicule to push behaviors and ideas that are not socially acceptable to the fringes. It is hardly necessary to mention that what is considered socially acceptable is not necessarily what is true. Humans have a very uneven record so far as socially constructed truth goes.
I'm not going to beat up on this commenter, or anyone else, for their reactions. I've already mentioned here how very hard I found even reading about cases that combined one paranormal category with another in my younger days. Ridicule was never my style, but you can be sure I'd have marginalized Bipedalist's experiences in my own mind had I learned about them then.
We cannot know what caused Bipedalist's experience. Not even Bipedalist knows that. But I have experienced enough in my lifetime to know that people have very strange experiences. I know this because I have had them. I understand that not so many other people have. The trouble is, without any direct connection to the strange, how can we wrap our minds around it? How can we expect others to?
I'm often amused at how insular the various "fringe science" and esoteric categories are. UFO people laugh at bigfoot people, who laugh back, while both laugh at ghost hunters, who are laughing all the way to the bank. It gets a little ridiculous when you think about it. A bioacoustician, Elizabeth von Muggenthaler, once said, speaking of a Vermont lake monster,
This just doesn't belong in the same category as crop circles or a Sasquatch sighting. It needs to be treated as real. You don't want to minimize the scientific importance of this.Lake monsters, real! Bigfoot and crop circles, unreal! How silly we must look to those who don't believe in any of it. (And, lest you think it is just us, take a look at this post on UFO Media Matters, dealing with the internecine war amongst UFO skeptics of the nuts and bolts variety versus their version of the paranormalists.)
The world we live in is a very strange place, and we know next to nothing about it. Not too many centuries hence, after humanity has gotten itself out of the rut it is in now, we as a species will look back at this time and see it as a kind of dark ages of thought and science. So many things we don't understand, and so many avenues of data we close off reflexively, out of, I believe, an irrational fear of the unknown. There are already avenues for understanding the apparently paranormal, and I've pointed some of them out here on this blog. One day soon, I believe, we are going to understand how paranormal things happen. And then they won't be paranormal anymore. We will find that there is a rational, scientific way of understanding these experiences.


7 comments:
A very excellent post!
You made good points; the ridicule doesn't just occur among the skeptibunkies, but often among researchers of the fringe as well, as you said.
Like you, years ago I also thought the paranormal, or high strangeness Bigfoot stories were the crazy ass nonsense of the deluded. And I believed in Bigfoot; just not "all that other stuff" lol. Until I starting coming across story after story from all kinds of places; and, met a few individuals personally. AND, had a few of my own weird experiences along these lines.
Mostly, I like what you said about just listening, without knee jerk reactions. Just .... listen, .... without judging.
Here's the reality to all those annoyed guys out there: You are not in charge of the situation. Bigfoot is. You and your kind have not once demonstrated that you are superior to them in any way in more than 50 years.
Doesn't that tell you something?
PS--"My group is better than your group" is one of the first signs of Bigfoot Madness...
Basically, are you trying to say that one's opinion carries more weight than anothers? People's reactions vary and they should not be dismissed because they have a negative reaction (free speech and all). Perhaps ridicule doesn't have a place, perhaps everyone should believe or keep an open mind for everything said or heard? Or just maybe, ridicule has it's place in society to reduce the amount of story telling and allow the offender to perhaps change that in themselves? I'm no psychologist, and I can't necessarily judge that a person is telling things that are not possible. I do seem to know when someone is talking BS. I'm sure you know that feeling?. Should I just walk away shaking my head or should I call them on it? I am not into the new touchy feely world we have become, too old for that. Has Science identified ecto plasma? Haven't orbs been debunked as dust and contaminates in the air? If so, wouldn't this persons story then fall under story telling? Would it make me a bad person to say BS instead of just shaking my head and then that person walks around the room trying to convince others? We can enable or disable those who really just seek attention and like children even negative attention is attention.
Well anonymous who is so concerned about "researchers" who are story tellers. I am a psychologist. And, I can assure you the purpose of my accounting on Billy's show was to let people know that educated people with good analytical skills can experience unusual phenomenon without having to be ridiculed and classified. It was the purpose of my presentation ....not your inane obsession with attention. My friends and colleagues know of my unimpeachable character. Hope yours know of your own? Wm. aka Bipedalist PS I have much more to share if DB wants further blog material. Thanks for the opportunity DB and Billy.
Yall dont have anything to do with Tom Biscardi do yall???
"Unimpeachable character," eh? What about impeaching it for arrogance?
Well,for one,when you have witnessed sasquatch for yourself you fully realise that it is a FLESH AND BLOOD ANIMAL and not some paranormal reject from a third rate horror script. The creature I witnessed was a flesh and blood animal who didnt vault into another dimension but simply moved through thick underbrush much quicker than any human..simply a being at peace with its surroundings and using skills long lost to us lazy humans. Maybe because they are so adept in the wild it may lead some to give them supernatural powers....simply not the case. Its past time to seperate the flesh and blood,science-based researchers from those who belong on one of the idiotic ghost hunting shows that are spreading across cable tv faster than swine flu. UGH
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